Healthy Lifestyle And My Self

 

Healthy Lifestyle

Is health in the dictionary to be a set of qualities that makes people healthy? In my case, I have been a person who has got all these qualities and those qualities are important to me and will continue to stay with me till the end of my life.

What I mean by them is if I can eat properly without any harm, sleep well, not miss out on things that are important to me, or take time for me with everything as much as possible. then why would anyone want it?

I mean when we have good food and a good environment, we cannot go back home even though our family members may have gone away for some reason. I feel like every time my mother goes back home after 5 years, there would still certain things she wants to know and things that she does not want to talk about. So how could we expect her to remain at home if all that is left is stuff? Is this what it means to live healthy lives?

That is just the beginning of my concern. For instance, I have never had a job, so I can't work out whenever I want, but I've worked hard and done whatever work I had to earn money. And this just means I'm working harder than everyone else. But, I was also doing activities that were considered fun for me. Like playing basketball or football with friends which I love, going out with some random guys or girls, etc. So, I guess I would argue that I am living a healthier lifestyle than other people. Let's see if you agree with me on anything.

On weekends, I often travel with my friend. Sometimes she picks me up from school, sometimes from college to make sure that I am okay. When we drive together, she always tries to help me out with where I do wrong, or where I need her to correct something which she can't fix. That way we don't get into trouble with each other. She doesn't care if we hurt in the process. It's just part of being with one another. This is very different from what I was used to. 

We did not spend time with each other while driving. You can imagine how boring it was for us to sit together in silence. It was weird, to say the least. Some of us got a little scared because we were worried that I would be kidnapped. Or maybe I was afraid that we might hit someone in an accident at my expense. 

Well, that's just part of being around someone who loves you very much. There might be times that I am late for classes and I am caught up in traffic for more than half an hour without letting anything slide. This might cause a lot of stress and worry in my life. And let me tell you, you don't feel any stress! You look fine. Anyway, I am quite happy about that situation. The reason I say it feels amazing is that it's my first car. I do believe that having a friend to drive means a lot more than I will ever know. I don't know what else she can do for me. Maybe I just need to learn to trust my judgment more and stop trying to please everybody.

On Sundays, my husband and I usually go with friends. One Sunday, for example, after church services, he came over late. I think he must have eaten some breakfast then. He was supposed to have given me his number. Anyway, he just hung around for a longer period. He came in very close to me almost three times. All three times, I just said "yes" and then went back to my seat. On two occasions, he put me to shame by telling me off a bit too harshly for no fault of mine. At that point, I wasn't upset at him for any particular reason, but I understood the message he was sent to me. 

I think we are both humans. He told me that he didn't want me anymore and that he was going to leave me. I hate that type of conversation. How dare somebody to treat me like trash! After all the years we spent together, it just feels rude! Also, my son is in his class today and I asked my daughter-in-law to pick him up as he was dropping me off. She refused to do that saying that he should be alone. I was shocked to hear that.

So, when your loved ones are gone, life isn't easy at all. Especially when they left the house to go out for a couple of days, you just sit here and sit there to watch these things happen. Don't you think that that is pretty ridiculous? That's just an example of many of my experiences. Whenever I am around friends for the holidays, I would constantly keep thinking if I can't come up with some excuse to go somewhere. If there is a party I have planned for over the next few weeks, I would rather not be exposed to unnecessary guests for fear of being embarrassed by my lack of planning ability. If I am sick, I would rather go to bed early instead of wasting time by seeking attention and getting treated poorly by others for no reason. But I had a lovely wife who stayed by my side till the last breath of my life, and that is priceless. I miss her dearly.

And finally, if you ever read this article and find yourself wondering if the above scenario sounds like the way to me, I would say yes, it does. It is true. I have been through most of these types of situations. However, I never felt alone, at least not during the whole period when I was sick. Although now that I am better, I rarely go to see people. But I would miss my parents and my brother-in-law very much. To be honest, I love them both very much. They're the closest to me and they'll always be in my heart because nobody can stop loving you unconditionally. Even at that stage where illness is taking its toll on my body physically, 

I am still positive that I'll pull through. Nobody needs my advice or support during such a difficult phase of my life. Who knows what lies ahead? Not only that, but I will say that I miss the joy that I once experienced while helping my children learn. While their eyes have grown up to become adults, there are some parts of my childhood that I cherish the most and that is my child. Even now, I try to instill moral values in them by teaching them various aspects of life from the time they're small. Of course, if they ever disobey me, I won't hold it against them. And, I don't mind if they decide to keep my peace.